I'm Curious If You Think These Reasons To Break Up With Someone Are Completely Reasonable — Or Unreasonable

The latest reality TV show gripping the nation is The Ultimatum: Marry or Move On. It's exactly what it sounds like...couples who aren't engaged yet (because one partner is hesitant) date other people for a month and then decide whether or not to get married. It's WILD.

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The show has people talking about "dealbreakers" in relationships, though. When is an issue too big to continue dating someone? At what point would you refuse to get engaged to someone based on a trait or disagreement?

So here are some scenarios (some of which are directly inspired by the show). Imagine you've been with someone for two years, and you either have to get married or break up... tell us if you think you'd marry the person, or move on in each case:

1. 1. You and your partner don't agree on whether or not you want to have kids.

   You and your partner don't agree on whether or not you want to have kids.

1. 2. Your partner snores. Loudly.

   Your partner snores. Loudly.

1. 3. You and/or your partner aren't currently financially stable.

   You and/or your partner aren't currently financially stable.

1. 4. You and your partner don't have the money to pay for the wedding you want to have.

   You and your partner don't have the money to pay for the wedding you want to have.

1. 5. You and your partner have different sex drives.

   You and your partner have different sex drives.

1. 6. Your partner is a loud chewer when they eat.

   Your partner is a loud chewer when they eat.

1. 7. Your partner refuses to put pics of you on their Instagram.

   Your partner refuses to put pics of you on their Instagram.

1. 8. Your partner flirts with other people on social media.

   Your partner flirts with other people on social media.

1. 9. Your partner flirts with other people in person.

   Your partner flirts with other people in person.

1. 10. Your partner emotionally cheated (i.e. fell in love with someone else and expressed those feelings to them).

   Your partner emotionally cheated (i.e. fell in love with someone else and expressed those feelings to them).

1. 11. Your partner kissed someone else.

   Your partner kissed someone else.

1. 12. Your partner had sex with someone else.

   Your partner had sex with someone else.

1. 13. Your partner is still close friends with their ex.

   Your partner is still close friends with their ex.

1. 14. Your partner still has nudes of their ex saved on their phone.

   Your partner still has nudes of their ex saved on their phone.

1. 15. Your parents/family don't approve of your partner.

   Your parents/family don't approve of your partner.

1. 16. Your partner's parents/family don't approve of YOU.

   Your partner's parents/family don't approve of YOU.

1. 17. Your friends don't like your partner, and have told you so.

   Your friends don't like your partner, and have told you so.

1. 18. You and your partner have different religions.

   You and your partner have different religions.

1. 19. Your partner wants to be polyamorous and you don't, or vice versa.

   Your partner wants to be polyamorous and you don't, or vice versa.

1. 20. Your partner sometimes embarrasses you in group settings.

   Your partner sometimes embarrasses you in group settings.

1. 21. Your partner likes to go out and party very late, but you prefer to stay home (or vice versa).

   Your partner likes to go out and party very late, but you prefer to stay home (or vice versa).

1. 22. Your partner expects you to be the sole "breadwinner" and expects to not have to have their own job.

   Your partner expects you to be the sole "breadwinner" and expects to not have to have their own job.

1. 23. Your partner hates dogs/cats and you love them (or vice versa).

   Your partner hates dogs/cats and you love them (or vice versa).

1. 24. Your partner doesn't tip wait staff.

   Your partner doesn't tip wait staff.

1. 25. Your partner picks their nose.

   Your partner picks their nose.

1. 26. You and your partner have very different views on money management (i.e. one is a big spender while the other is frugal).

   You and your partner have very different views on money management (i.e. one is a big spender while the other is frugal).

1. 27. You don't like your partner's fashion choices.

   You don't like your partner's fashion choices.

1. 28. Your partner smokes cigarettes and you don't, or vice versa.

   Your partner smokes cigarettes and you don't, or vice versa.

1. 29. Your partner smokes marijuana and you don't, or vice versa.

   Your partner smokes marijuana and you don't, or vice versa.

1. 30. You and your partner would have to have a long-distance relationship for at least one year.

   You and your partner would have to have a long-distance relationship for at least one year.